(Even If You’ve Been Disconnected For Decades)
(Even If You’ve Been Disconnected For Decades)
But when it comes to finding your own happiness in the face of a struggling marriage, you feel completely lost, hopeless, and stuck…
This will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
But when it comes to finding your own happiness in the face of a struggling marriage, you feel completely lost, hopeless, and stuck…
This will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
If you often find yourself sitting on the sidelines and complaining about your relationship issues, but never actually doing the work to resolve them…
If you’re looking for a magic pill to instantly “fix” your spouse or the struggles you’re facing…
I’ll just tell you now:
This program is not for you.
Neither you nor your spouse can be "fixed" by this program.
Because, in reality, neither of you are broken! You just haven't been equipped for success.
Genuinely ready to do what it takes to either fully commit to your relationship or lovingly release it.
Willing to make the necessary changes within yourself to become more confident, vibrant, and content than you’ve ever been.
Aware that with the right teachings and tools, YOU are capable of carrying out a decision about your marriage and creating the life you truly desire.
Motivated to finally get clarity and feel peace in your life and heart.
If you feel that any of the above describes you, THIS PROGRAM CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
This program will give you everything you need to find clarity and overcome your endless indecision.
Whether you decide to stay and reconnect with your spouse or peacefully and lovingly leave the relationship, you’ll be equipped to confidently make the decision… with no regrets!
P.S. This is the LOWEST rate we’ll ever offer The Decision membership… and we can’t guarantee you’ll ever see it again. Join now, and we’ll also WAIVE the one-time start-up fee!
A Complete Walkthrough Of My Proprietary The Decision Process®. Take a proven journey from confusion to clarity, guided by my entire library of decision-making videos.
Live Calls with me each month. A live Q&A, a live Coaching Call, a live Teaching Call and an intimate Coffee & Cocktails conversation each month. You'll not only have these available moving forward, but because all of our calls are recorded, there are five years of recordings that will be available inside the platform for you on Day One.
Instant relief for your most pressing issues. Trainings specific to affairs, communication, boundaries, getting your needs met, and being more decisive
An All-Access Pass to The Decision video library to guide you through the decision-making process with tons of relationship tools you can begin applying instantly!
Plus, access to our Private Members Only Community Area, so you can get even more insights and support from me, my team, and other women who understand exactly what you’re going through! If you’ve ever felt alone in your marriage struggles, The Community will help you quickly realize you are not walking alone!
A welcome packet that will help you gain traction in the program quickly, so that you can start to feel shifts right away!
ALL teachings come in video, audio, and written transcript format (many with worksheets!) so you can learn in the style that best suits your needs.
Leaning toward fixing your marriage: You want to give your marriage the very best opportunity to evolve and feel good again - but you aren’t sure if that’s possible
Leaning toward walking away peacefully: You want to release the marriage, but you’re paralyzed with fear of regret.
Experiencing an affair: You or your partner have betrayed the relationship and you’re trying to make sense of how to move forward (one direction or another) for yourself and your family
There was never a class on intimacy, connection, or trusting yourself (or anyone else) emotionally.
Nor do we often discuss our private relationship problems with others.
So when you find yourself stuck in a lonely, passionless marriage 20+ years down the line, you might know that you’re miserable…
After all, couldn’t this just be “the way marriage is” after so many years together?
Are you being selfish by wanting more than just a roommate and co-parent?
And if you’re really so miserable, why does actually leaving the marriage feel impossible?
No, you’re not selfish. Quite the opposite, in fact.
At the onset of the “empty-nester” phase, many women find themselves depleted from serving everyone around them for years on end - and completely clueless about how to serve themselves.
They may know how they want to feel, but they don’t know how to get there…
So they remain paralyzed with fear, believing they’ll never feel seen, desired, and loved the way they long for.
This can be an unbearably painful state to live in - to the point that you don’t think you can last another day (been there!).
You have an opportunity right here, right now, to change everything about your life as you know it.
Because when you claim the (relationship) “keys to the kingdom” that I’ve used with my private clients, amazing things will happen.
You’ll know exactly what you deserve and can expect out of your marriage, and you’ll know your next best step on your journey to creating a life you’ll love.
By increasing your confidence and decisiveness, you’ll begin showing up in a new way for all your important relationships (and trust that you’ve got your own back, freeing you to step away from ones that no longer serve you).
And with absolute clarity about what’s possible for your relationship (and what’s not), your brain will finally have the energy to focus on what YOU truly desire for your life and relationship.
Whether you ultimately decide to stay or go, this confusing, paralyzing, and turbulent period of your life will come to an end, and you’ll finally have the peace of mind and clarity you’ve been craving for so long - without regrets.
When you join The Decision: Should I Stay or Go?
Membership, you can get started NOW.
Get started for just $697 then $297/month!
For women at the start of their
decision-making journey
$697 then $297/month
Welcome packet
Kickstart Call with a team member
All-Access Pass to The Decision video library
4 Live Group Calls with Sharon each month
Access to our Private Members Only Community Area
You’ll get free copies of 3 of my best relationship books (one of them pre-release!).
Journal prompts (get inspiration for writing out your feelings, opening yourself to personal epiphanies, and re-centering yourself daily)
Sharon Pope screensavers & phone wallpapers (so you can be constantly reminded of what you’re working toward and keep your eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel)
Coloring pages (use this therapeutic activity to relax and re-engage with your goals)
This is where you can ask me all of your unique relationship questions that have been keeping you stuck for years on end.
Plus, as you run into new difficult circumstances on your journey (which, of course, you will), you’ll always have someone to help guide you along to the next step.
With instant answers from a relationship expert, you’ll be able to find new ways to move forward and make real change in your marriage - the type you’ve been craving!
You didn't get to this place of struggle overnight, so the solutions to these challenges will also not occur overnight.
I imagine that how you feel about your marriage depends on the day.
Some days you feel like things are okay - maybe even good!
And then there are probably other days where you feel frustrated or hopeless.
If you quit on yourself before creating new habits that lead to lasting change in your marriage or a decision that you can see through to the end, you won't have the tools and support you need when things get difficult… which, of course, they will.
So I ask for this commitment because I want you to get to real clarity… and doing so takes some time.
You can join right now for just $197/month. You SAVE $100 per month - for life!
And as a special BONUS, we’ll waive the $697 starting fee.
Instead of paying $697 for your first month and $297/month thereafter… you can lock-in special pricing - but ONLY for a limited time.
Doors close on Thursday, May 1 at 11:59PM PT.
This is the best price you’ll ever see for this comprehensive membership program… and we can’t guarantee you’ll see this price again.
And truth be told…
The longer your relationship challenges go unresolved, the more resentments will mount, distances will grow, and hurts will deepen.
If you want to create the best outcome possible for your marriage, there’s no time to waste.
Maybe you’ve tried other online programs that only reaffirm what you already know.
Maybe you’ve tried couples counseling that boils down to “venting sessions” and gets you nowhere.
The Decision membership is so much more than you can imagine—and it’s helped thousands of people just like you.
Lock-In Our Lowest Price Ever!
You pay just $197/month when you join now.
SAVE $797 - ONLY until Thursday, May 1 at 11:59PM PT.
A: Let me ask you a question: If your car died tomorrow, what would you do? You'd take it to a mechanic and pay him (or her) to get it back to running properly, of course. When we have a problem in our lives, we invest in solving that problem. The challenges in your marriage are no different. But somewhere along the way, we all got this idea that we should just instinctively know how to navigate our most intimate relationship over decades together…except there were no classes or training for us. So how exactly are we supposed to have all those answers? If you knew how to fix your car yourself, you would probably do it. If you knew how to fix the challenges in your marriage, you would have probably done it years ago.
A: Your relationship is unique, of course. But your relationship challenges are (likely) not. You only think they’re unique because we rarely (read: NEVER) talk about our relationship problems with other people! This program (and especially, this community!) will remind you that many of our biggest relationship challenges are actually relatable.
With that said… here’s what this program WON’T solve:
Clinical depression/mental illness
Addiction
Physical abuse in relationships
A: Okay… I hear you, and I understand. But there's some reason why you haven't left and moved through divorce yet! The Decision will either cement your plan in place and give you tools to navigate your many steps through the divorce process so you don't get stuck, or give you something new to consider. But either way… you'll be moving forward!
A: Yes, of course! After coaching women through relationship challenges for more than ten years, many men have found my teachings and perspectives helpful. (Several of those men are in The Decision themselves.) Most men understand the male perspective already, so they can certainly benefit from having the female perspective on relationship challenges. But please pay attention to a two important things: (1) I only coach people who "want" coaching (so if your partner isn't asking and you're forcing this upon them in an effort to change him/her, they will not be able to receive any of the teachings I offer); and (2) while the program and my teachings are NOT gender-specific, many of my examples come from the perspective of heterosexual relationships and a woman's point of view. Anyone can benefit from these tools and teachings if they want to, and if they're willing to learn how to engage in relationships differently (because the way you're engaging today clearly isn't working).
A: Most relationship programs focus only on content, leaving you to actually apply the teachings (the hardest part!) by yourself. Our members get incredible results because the program encompasses all 3 of the pieces you need to create real change:
CONTENT: My content embraces a non-judgemental, yet no-BS approach.
COACHING: Our coaching is where we help you apply the tools to your specific circumstances and continue making progress, even when things get hard.
COMMUNITY: Our community is a 24/7 sounding board where you can ask all your questions and realize you’re not alone… all in complete privacy.
It's a challenging time in our world right now and I understand that the exchange rate from USD to your local currency might make this feel like a tricky financial decision for you. Here's what is important as you consider whether or not to join us in The Decision program: If the increase from $197 USD to your local exchange rate puts you in financial hardship, I don't want you to join The Decision. I'll make the decision for you: joining The Decision now is not a priority. Getting into a better financial position needs to be the priority because then we will have options that don't exist today. But if you're just feeling like: It's more expensive now than it was previously…that's a bummer... or, It feels like I'm paying more than others…. or maybe just a simple feeling of: That's expensive.
Here's what I would ask you to consider: What is your marriage worth to you? Even though you're not feeling good about your marriage right now, what are the impacts to you and to your family and your future if you continue as you are for another few years or throw in the towel and give up on it completely? There are costs to paying lawyers and dividing up assets...Telling your kids…Telling friends and family…Finding a new place to live…Grieving the loss of a marriage lost. When looking at the investment through that lens, it's hard to say that an extra 100 - 200 dollars per month in your local currency isn't worth it. It's still worth it. I've had people pay me up to $20,000 USD before to help them through their marriage struggles because it was THAT important to them. So it's all relative depending how important it is for you. We're not talking about tens of thousands of dollars; we're talking about a bit more in your local currency. I'd ask you to think about the value to you and your life right now.
Would it have been less expensive if you had signed-up a year or two ago? Yes, of course. But the best time to start making changes in your life in order to create a different outcome was yesterday. The second best time to begin making changes is today. The sooner you begin, the sooner you will come to a decision that you can feel peace with and start to move your life forward in a new direction - whether that is to stay and evolve the relationship so that it feels good or lovingly release it.
Do you pay closer attention to things that cost a little or a lot? Here's the truth about virtually all human beings: We pay attention to what we pay for…particularly when the investment feels a little uncomfortable. Here's why that's great news: You won't come into the program and play around with it like some people do: watching a video here and there, never attending a live call or never asking for the coaching you need and then six months goes by and you're wondering "What's changed?" Nope. That won't be you. You will come into the program…motivated…focused…and invested. Which means, you'll see results so much more quickly. You already know that these challenges in your marriage are not going to get better on their own. If they were going to magically improve, they would have by now. If this is speaking to you as the answer you've been seeking, then I invite you to join us. I look forward to supporting you.
Much love - Sharon
Okay! I appreciate you taking the time to read this letter, and I hope you find peace and contentment in your relationship soon.
P.S. If you’re like me and skip to the end of these letters, here's what you need to know:
The Decision: Should I Stay or Go? membership program is my most comprehensive program yet to help you come to a decision about your marriage… once and for all!
This program will give you everything you need to find clarity in your relationship and overcome your endless indecision.
You’ll get everything you need to find clarity in your relationship and overcome your endless indecision:
A welcome packet to help you gain traction quickly
A Kickstart Call to get you started along The Success Path
An All-Access Pass to The Decision video library
An exclusive membership to our Private Members-Only Community Area
Live Calls with Sharon every month: Teaching, Q&As, Coaching, “Coffee & Cocktails,” and more!
Whether you decide to stay and reconnect with your spouse or lovingly release it, you’ll be able to confidently make the decision with no regrets!
You can cancel your membership at any time.
However, please be aware that your relationship issues cannot be solved overnight. I highly recommend that you mentally commit to the membership for one full year, to ensure you make the lasting changes necessary to find clarity and happiness.
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