A:  Let me ask you a question: If your car died tomorrow, what would you do? You'd take it to a mechanic and pay him (or her) to get it back to running properly, of course. When we have a problem in our lives, we invest in solving that problem. The challenges in your marriage are no different. But somewhere along the way, we all got this idea that we should just instinctively know how to navigate our most intimate relationship over decades together…except there were no classes or training for us. So how exactly are we supposed to have all those answers? If you knew how to fix your car yourself, you would probably do it. If you knew how to fix the challenges in your marriage, you would have probably done it years ago.

A: Your relationship is unique, of course. But your relationship challenges are (likely) not. You only think they’re unique because we rarely (read: NEVER) talk about our relationship problems with other people! This program (and especially, this community!) will remind you that many of our biggest relationship challenges are actually relatable.

With that said… here’s what this program WON’T solve:

• Clinical depression/mental illness

• Addiction

• Physical abuse in relationships

A: Okay… I hear you, and I understand. But there's some reason why you haven't left and moved through divorce yet! The Decision will either cement your plan in place and give you tools to navigate your many steps through the divorce process so you don't get stuck, or give you something new to consider. But either way… you'll be moving forward!

A: Yes, of course! After coaching women through relationship challenges for more than ten years, many men have found my teachings and perspectives helpful. (Several of those men are in The Decision themselves.) Most men understand the male perspective already, so they can certainly benefit from having the female perspective on relationship challenges. But please pay attention to a two important things: (1) I only coach people who "want" coaching (so if your partner isn't asking and you're forcing this upon them in an effort to change him/her, they will not be able to receive any of the teachings I offer); and (2) while the program and my teachings are NOT gender-specific, many of my examples come from the perspective of heterosexual relationships and a woman's point of view. Anyone can benefit from these tools and teachings if they want to, and if they're willing to learn how to engage in relationships differently (because the way you're engaging today clearly isn't working).

A: Most relationship programs focus only on content, leaving you to actually apply the teachings (the hardest part!) by yourself. Our members get incredible results because the program encompasses all 3 of the pieces you need to create real change:

• CONTENT: My content embraces a non-judgemental, yet no-BS approach.

• COACHING: Our coaching is where we help you apply the tools to your specific circumstances and continue making progress, even when things get hard.

• COMMUNITY: Our community is a 24/7 sounding board where you can ask all your questions and realize you’re not alone… all in complete privacy.

It's a challenging time in our world right now and I understand that the exchange rate from USD to your local currency might make this feel like a tricky financial decision for you. Here's what is important as you consider whether or not to join us in The Decision program: If the increase from $197 USD to your local exchange rate puts you in financial hardship, I don't want you to join The Decision. I'll make the decision for you: joining The Decision now is not a priority. Getting into a better financial position needs to be the priority because then we will have options that don't exist today. But if you're just feeling like: It's more expensive now than it was previously…that's a bummer... or, It feels like I'm paying more than others…. or maybe just a simple feeling of: That's expensive. 

Here's what I would ask you to consider: What is your marriage worth to you? Even though you're not feeling good about your marriage right now, what are the impacts to you and to your family and your future if you continue as you are for another few years or throw in the towel and give up on it completely? There are costs to paying lawyers and dividing up assets...Telling your kids…Telling friends and family…Finding a new place to live…Grieving the loss of a marriage lost. When looking at the investment through that lens, it's hard to say that an extra 100 - 200 dollars per month in your local currency isn't worth it. It's still worth it. I've had people pay me up to $20,000 USD before to help them through their marriage struggles because it was THAT important to them. So it's all relative depending how important it is for you. We're not talking about tens of thousands of dollars; we're talking about a bit more in your local currency. I'd ask you to think about the value to you and your life right now. 

Would it have been less expensive if you had signed-up a year or two ago? Yes, of course. But the best time to start making changes in your life in order to create a different outcome was yesterday. The second best time to begin making changes is today. The sooner you begin, the sooner you will come to a decision that you can feel peace with and start to move your life forward in a new direction - whether that is to stay and evolve the relationship so that it feels good or lovingly release it. 

Do you pay closer attention to things that cost a little or a lot? Here's the truth about virtually all human beings: We pay attention to what we pay for…particularly when the investment feels a little uncomfortable. Here's why that's great news: You won't come into the program and play around with it like some people do: watching a video here and there, never attending a live call or never asking for the coaching you need and then six months goes by and you're wondering "What's changed?" Nope. That won't be you. You will come into the program…motivated…focused…and invested. Which means, you'll see results so much more quickly. You already know that these challenges in your marriage are not going to get better on their own. If they were going to magically improve, they would have by now. If this is speaking to you as the answer you've been seeking, then I invite you to join us. I look forward to supporting you.

Much love - Sharon